Have you ever wondered why things are the way they are. As I ponder I ask myself all of these questions. To me it seems as if it all comes down to perception and how we see a situation we are in or given. Let me explain for example, you can give one situation to ten different people and get at least ten different reactions and responses. I have to wonder of those that are given a good hand how the hell they get dealt that hand, and it seems as if they are always the dealer and constantly winning. For example with most of the crazy people I have had in my life (which it seems as if I have a magnet for them) I just don't get how they get it made so easily. Like some of my friends as I was younger their parents handed them everything and they never had to deal with any loss what so ever in their life. To where they found some chump to marry them and allow them to stay at home with their child and call me old fashion they are handling the finances, when that should be the mans job if he is the bread winner in a single income family. As I call them chumps it is because they are really half decent men and if they had morals could be truly happy, but they land with these crazy girls that just give them sex and clean the house and take care their child (doesn't mean that they are good at it) and to them its cheaper than dating or going out and finding it somewhere else. These women are always younger than them even by several years, and may be tiny and have cute bodies, but they seem to wear a gob of makeup to make up for their face. You know when you justify things in your mind, "You cant fix ugly!" I wish that these men would have more respect for themselves and dump these women that are using them as an easy out and make them be worth it or be with out. These men are friends of my husband and even friends of my own and it is sad to see a man think they can make a bar fly into a house wife. (That is nicely stated, because there is a rap song that better describes that phrase) I feel as if I have to get this off of my chest, these women truly make good women look bad.